Don’t let your friends or clients treat you like second hand clothes!
You are valuable and unique and deserved to be treated that way.
But, sometimes we let people cross our boundaries and let them treat us any kind of way because we have a low moment in life and they catch us at a vulnerable time.
But that is no excuse for them to treat you like second hand clothes.
Several years ago, a person I thought was a friend told me that I work in the world of lies, because I work in Television and Film. And they caught me off guard and constantly pushed the LIAR button and continued saying that my work was worthless and made the world a bad place to be. Needless to say, I dumped that person like trash and never looked back.
And that is why it’s important to REFLECT. Sometimes, we allow venomous people in our lives and let them stay there.
Take a moment now, and see who is showing up in your life. Sit back and reflect about how people treat you.
How do the people in your inner circle show up? How do they treat you?
What about the people at work? How do they interact with you?
How do your clients treat you? Do you have a client that uses you for the low paying contract jobs and sends the great high paying exotic location jobs to someone else?
Now of course there are all kinds of reasons why people treat us the way they do. Maybe it’s a bad day for them or things aren’t going as planned and they are stressed and take it out on you. Those moments are temporary and kind of easy to let slide.
And then, there are the hell spawned people. You know the ones I’m talking about. The ones that spit hellfire words like a bad breath dragon. Those are the ones that need to be emptied from your life.
Pay attention to what you are allowing in your life. Really consider who the people are in your life and keep the great ones and dump the ones that need to grow a better attitude. It’s important to have boundaries and a strong vision for yourself. If you don’t have boundaries create some. It’s that simple. We only have one life, so make yours great and surround yourself with amazing people.
Live the imagined life fully engaged.
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